Woman Refuses To Tip Waiter, But Didn’t Realize What She Left At The Table

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Instant Karma

He went to collect the bill from the table and realized that the woman must have rushed out while he wasn’t looking. He hoped that she hadn’t dined and dashed as he opened the leather folder, and breathed a sigh of relief when he saw that the bill was paid in full – right down to the last cent.

But instead of a tip, the woman had left him an obnoxious note. Disappointed, he started to clear the plates away when he noticed the envelope. “Well, well…what’s this?” he thought to himself as he opened it. His eyes widened as he realized that what he held in his hand could only have been a dose of instant karma.

Life Of A Server

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For 27-year-old Armando Markaj, the day had started as usual — serving tables at the busy Patsy’s Pizzeria in Harlem, New York City. He worked long hours to put himself through medical school and prided himself on providing the best service he could, and he did it all with a smile.

Little did he know, one woman on his lunchtime shift was about to test his patience to the absolute limit.

Bad Luck

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Saturdays are some of the busiest times at Patsy’s Pizzeria. Throngs of diners had gathered from all over the city to enjoy the restaurant’s iconic pizza, and Armando was quickly finding his hands full.

It was just his bad luck that, on top of the pizzeria being packed to the rafters, one ill-mannered woman and her daughter had arrived and were seated in his section.

Wall Of Memories

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The pizzeria’s current owner, Frank Brinja, is extremely proud of the establishment’s heritage – Patsy’s Pizzeria opened its doors in 1933. The walls are decorated with photographs of numerous patrons’ famous faces and accolades, painstakingly collected over a span of 86 years.

Armando noticed that the two women had their eyes on the wall, scrutinizing every last detail as they waited to be served. The hardworking server, seeing their unhappy faces, knew right away that there was going to be a problem.

Taking Their Order

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Armando quickly approached the women and greeted them with a warm smile, and they ordered two New York-style pizza slices. So far, so good.

Just as Armando was turning to walk away, the older woman stopped him and pointedly asked a question that he would never forget. Armando, unprepared for the confrontation, was left at a loss for words.


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“Why are there so few pictures of women on the wall?” she asked, with venom dripping from every word. Armando opened his mouth to speak, but no words came out. Was she joking?

She waited expectantly, and then it dawned on him that this woman’s question had been completely facetious. And she expected an answer. Armando laughed nervously and foolishly tried to make a joke, but completely blew it.

Wrong Answer

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“Maybe woman don’t eat a lot of pizza…?” he stammered, trying to laugh it off. The woman’s eyes narrowed and her mouth turned downward into a mean sneer. She had made up her mind, and now Armando was going to pay for answering her question so flippantly.

The flustered server retreated to place the pair’s order and tried not to dwell on the mean-spirited woman — after all, there were other tables that urgently needed his attention.

The Good And The Bad


As a server, Armando expected to have good customers and bad customers. And some were just downright rude. But even if he prepared for the worst, it didn’t completely take the sting out of being stiffed by rude patrons.

Nevertheless, he resolved to always try his best to give all his customers equally good service. His livelihood depended on tips – he just prayed that there wouldn’t be any more trouble today. But by the end of his shift, he would find himself presented with a golden opportunity to flip the situation on its head.

An Empty Table

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After Armando had brought the two women’s steaming pizza slices to the table, he quickly moved on to the next customers who were demanding his attention. When they asked for the check, he was sure to deliver it promptly, but the restaurant was getting fuller by the minute.

Rushing back to collect the check after attending to another large table’s orders, he was surprised to find it empty. He only prayed that the women hadn’t left without paying. But when he looked inside, the note he found was far more hurtful.

An Obnoxious Message

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“Maybe women don’t tip either,” was obnoxiously handwritten on the receipt. Armando could barely believe his eyes. With a heavy heart, he started to clear the plates when he noticed a white envelope underneath the napkins.

Curious, he opened it up and peeked inside. When he saw the ‘Citibank’ logo appear, he didn’t stop to think. He ran out the door to chase her down.

Too Late

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“I just pulled up the flap and I saw ‘Citibank’ and thought it was important, so I ran out to the street to look for her, but she was gone,” Armando recalled. With the woman nowhere in sight, he opened the envelope to investigate further.

Inside was a check for the largest amount Armando had ever laid eyes on.


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The check that the rude woman had left behind on the table was for a staggering $424,000. Armando had a very big decision to make. If he wanted to, he could teach her a powerful lesson. He weighed his options carefully.

On the one hand, he had the option to just throw the check away — no-one would be the wiser. He could do it in the name of karma. Or he could attempt to cash it, and his money troubles would be over. On the other hand, either decision would make him just as mean-spirited as the woman who had ruined his day. What would you do?


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After thinking carefully about his moral dilemma, Armando did what most of us would have done.

He called Frank Brinja, owner of Patsy’s, and put the check’s fate in his hands. “He called me immediately and hands me this check and I was like, ‘Oh my…’ I didn’t want to put it in my pocket it was so much money,” Frank explains. “We thought for sure it was a billionaire or something who came in here, because who walks around with a check like that?”

Tracking Her Down

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“Normally we just put things left behind in the lost and found box in the back, but I wasn’t going to do that with almost half a million dollars,” Armando explained.

Frank tried to track down the woman, whose name on the check was Karen Vincour, but didn’t have any luck. He then decided to wait to see if she would retrace her steps and come back. “We decided we would hold on to the check for a couple of days to see if she would drop by or if we could find her ourselves,” he said.

Frantic Search

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Meanwhile, 79-year-old Karen Vincour was in a frenzy. Realizing that she’d lost her check, she frantically called her daughter, who proceeded to search through the household trash. Then, Karen began to retrace her steps.

First, she called the cafe across the street from Patsy’s where she had stopped for a coffee earlier that morning, then she decided to call the pizzeria, but was met with confusion. “She said she had called Patsy’s and nobody knew anything about a check,” Vinacour’s real estate broker said in an interview. “I didn’t stop to think that maybe she called the wrong one.”

Life Savings

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It turned out that the check for $424,000 was Karen’s life’s savings. She’d just sold her apartment, and the amount was the proceeds that she planned to use as a down payment on a new home.

Her world felt like it was collapsing around her. And when she called the bank to cancel the check, she got some devastating news.

Out Of Their Hands

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“They said they couldn’t immediately cancel it because it was a cashier’s check. I would have to wait at least three months before they could even start the process, and only if someone didn’t cash it in the meantime,” Karen explained.

Without that check, Karen wouldn’t have a home. She had been staying with friends, sleeping on a different couch each night.

Enlisting Help

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When Karen hadn’t shown up at Patsy’s to reclaim her check, Frank decided it was time to enlist professional help. He called a local newspaper, and they were able to track her down within minutes.

Just under half an hour later, Karen arrived at the pizzeria. And Armando was waiting to greet her at the door. But did she feel sorry that she had stiffed him so rudely?


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“She was so happy and she was in tears,” says Frank. “But, the second she saw Armando, you could see she got a little shy.” She must have felt like a fool.

At least she had the sense to undo some of her wrongdoing by offering the hardworking server a finder’s fee and apologized profusely for being so nasty. But Armando’s reaction surprised everyone.

Making Up

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Armando accepted Karen’s apology but declined the money. “I’m happy for her, really,” he confessed. “Saturdays are pretty busy and I was very close to taking everything left on the table and throwing it out when I saw an envelope.” Karen and Armando made up over some hot pizza, and then Frank showed her the photograph wall to prove a point.

He took her over and pointed out all the women’s faces that she had missed that Saturday, including TV host Barbara Walters, First Lady Chirlane McCray and former City Council Speakers Christine Quinn and Melissa Mark-Viverito. Then, to drive the point home, he offered to do something else, too. “We joked with her and said we’d add her picture up on the wall,” he said, laughing.

But do you think Karen will think twice about leaving a nasty note for her server in future?